Have you ever been Shrekked?

Drawn from the animated film Shrek—the term “Shrekking” refers to the act of dating someone you perceive as “below” your usual standard, particularly in physical aspect, expecting that they’ll treat you better. Yet it often ends in disappointment, betrayal, and emotional distress.

The trend reflects a deeper issue in modern dating—where many people feel burned out and vulnerable with the rise of dating apps, ghosting, and an increasingly complex dating culture.

However, this strategy often backfires. Despite lowering their standards, many people still find themselves emotionally hurt—leading to the now-ironic phrase: “I got Shrekked.”

While “Shrekking” might sound like a humorous and relatable trend, it actually stems from fear and insecurity. It’s a form of emotional self-protection disguised as practicality. But relationships built on fear—rather than genuine connection—often lead to resentment, dissatisfaction, and the very heartbreak they were meant to avoid.

At the end of the day, Shrekking shows us that choosing someone out of fear—rather than true connection—usually brings more pain than peace. Real love doesn’t need to be perfect. It just needs to be real.

H/T: PhilSTAR Life

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